Collaborative Family Law

Collaborative Family Law Solicitors

When a relationship breaks down, resolving matters such as the (shared) care arrangements for children and the separation of finances can be incredibly stressful. The traditional court process can feel combative and overwhelming – but there is another way.

Collaborative family law offers a more amicable, open approach to resolving disputes without going to court.

At Josiah‑Lake Gardiner, our trained collaborative lawyers can help you reach agreements with your partner through constructive discussions, rather than contentious litigation.

To speak to one of our collaborative family law solicitors, call 020 3405 0184 or complete our online enquiry form.

Collaborative law is a process where both parties and their solicitors commit to resolving matters – such as divorce, separation, financial settlements, or child arrangements – through face‑to‑face meetings, rather than through court proceedings.

Everyone signs a participation agreement, pledging to work together constructively and transparently. If either party decides to take the matter to court, both solicitors must withdraw from the case, encouraging everyone to stay committed to a resolution.

Collaborative law can help couples:

Reach agreements more quickly and cost‑effectively than going to court
Maintain a civil relationship, which is particularly important where children are involved
Stay in control of the outcome, rather than leaving decisions to a judge
Reduce stress and conflict during an already difficult time

Our solicitors trained in the collaborative process can guide you through each step, ensuring your interests are protected while maintaining a constructive approach.

Initial meeting – You and your solicitor discuss your goals and whether collaborative law is right for you.
Participation agreement – Both parties and solicitors commit to resolving issues collaboratively.
Joint meetings – Everyone meets together to discuss issues openly, with solicitors facilitating discussions.
Reaching an agreement – Once an agreement is reached, it can be formalised by the court (if required) to make it legally binding.

Q: Is collaborative law legally binding?
A: The discussions themselves are not legally binding, but once an agreement is reached, your solicitors can draft a consent order or formal agreement to be approved by the court, giving it legal effect.

Q: What if we can’t agree?
A: If you cannot reach an agreement, you can still take the matter to court – but both collaborative solicitors must withdraw, and you’ll each need to instruct new lawyers.

Q: Is collaborative law cheaper than going to court?
A: It can be. Collaborative law often requires fewer hours of solicitor time compared to litigation, which helps to keep costs down, although the total cost depends on how quickly agreements are reached.

Q: Can we use collaborative law if we’re not married or in a civil partnership?
A: Yes. Collaborative law can be used to resolve disputes for cohabiting couples, parents, or anyone wishing to resolve family matters without going to court.

Our experienced family law team includes solicitors trained in collaborative practice. We will:

Explain whether collaborative law is the right approach for your circumstances
Guide you through each step of the process
Help you reach a fair, practical resolution while reducing conflict

For many families, collaborative law can make the process of separation far less stressful and far more constructive.

If you would like to explore resolving your family law issues without going to court, speak to our collaborative family law solicitors today. Call 020 3405 0184 or complete our online enquiry form to arrange a consultation.

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